don't change...

we all change...over the years....if we didn't...and we stayed exactly the same as, let's say....when we were 18 we would all be asses.  

JUST KIDDING!

but seriously.....we've all changed....but, yet- there is a piece of you...that never changes...something in your core that makes you....so wonderfully you.  

and what happens when someone realizes that they don't really want that wonderful you anymore?  

are you supposed to change?  to make someone else happy?  I think it's hard...and people lose sight of the importance of changing and not changing....

so crazy, huh?  yeah, change is good...we all change...and grow...and whatnot, but there are going to be things...

things that people shouldn't try to change about you.  

and today...in the car, I heard a cover of this INXS song....and it was pretty...

and it made me think of my friend Connie....and other people like her...who, are....so wonderful...and who should honor that...and they end up marrying, 

they end up with a person who....they just....don't bring out each other's potential....and for each to change...would be...both living as fake plastic trees together....nobody can live like that. 

and it's not the end of the world...the sky isn't falling...and it's important to honor the happiness...so many years spent together, unhappily married....

for what?  

probably seems like...the worst thing...but really....it is the best thing for all...it just takes some time to see it...when the dust settles....things are better.  

and that's....the silver lining... something that may seem so tragic...

might be the thing that is the most magic....

INXS, Don't Change...

I'm standing here on the ground

The sky above won't fall down

see no evil in all direction

Resolution of happiness

things have been dark for too long, 

don't change for you, 

don't change a thing, for me...

I found a love I had lost

It was gone for too long

Hear no evil in all directions

Execution of bitterness

Message received loud and clear

don't change for you

don't change a thing...for me. 

peace...and love....and honoring yourself.  don't change too much. :)