magnanimity...

if you want something you never had....you have to do something you've never done...

you need to be brave and face fear...maintain poise and grace through hard times, 

believe in a higher purpose, an elevated soul....

selflessly help others....feel love and sunshine...

I think...

I could safely say....

I wear

three types of footwear......


boots.

flip-flops


and  converse slip ons...

and that....


is

all.

Boots are usually on....from Nov- March....when the weather is colder than 40 and snow....

converse are on...usually...when it's warmer than 40...no snow...and sunny...or raining.

flip flops are on...when it's around 50...

flip flops will always be on in Texas...and I am going to miss wearing my boots...

but boots are for winter....and you have to change your footwear with the change of the season....change of location....

and change...


of needs.

I mean..you can't expect to wear boots around your whole life..things change, winter doesn't last forever..

...and with that change...

you need to listen to your needs... because when you love and respect yourself and listen to changing times, you also look out for others...and wish the best for them....instead of getting hung up on pettiness...

and sometimes people will make you think and feel that you are less than you are...when they do that...it's not you...it's them....usually people treat you crappy because they feel crappy inside, not because you're crappy.


you can't be....and aren't defined by that....only you can define yourself....and when you let others define you....you give them power to do so...it's about believing in yourself and loving yourself...and being....

magnanimous.....

sometimes by being strong within yourself...and changing the way you do things...changes things around you....and sets wonderful things around you....in motion....but it takes strength....to want life to be different...to set out on a voyage you've never been on....



but...ummmm.....I do have way too many flip flops...but....oh my goodness....it makes me think of something I want to try.....