make love your destination...

i have no idea what to blog today....I have about 50 different ideas.....and not a one is just pouring out...but I will say this, 

while I was looking at song lyrics, I found this one, 'make love your destination'....

of course it's from a Tears for Fears song....I won't say which, it's not super important and you can google it...but...anyway....

when you make love your destination...and you work towards that....your  road leading there..your heart leading there...

the journey is incredible...the sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and touches...  

then you find out...that you've arrived...

on an island.....where nothing else matters....because really....nothing else does.  

it is then, when you are totally satisfied...satiated....calm in the knowing that you have everything you need.  

and when you read really....awesome quotes that get right to the heart of the matter...about life....about love....about perseverance....about faith and about hope....all these paths....lead to love.  I mean...if you want to talk in binary terms.....the really awesome ones don't talk about hate and fear as a model for an awesome life....right? 

and when you love yourself...you never have to feel lonely....because you are with someone awesome.....

you.  

because you are awesome...it is really quite simple.  happiness.  

and 

because where you are with the fullness of your own love....is.....way more fulfilling than relying on someone else to love and appreciate you....

because that's not what you want in a relationship...two people- co-dependent on each other to make each other happy.  

each must be happy standing on their own.  

and so there it is.....

you have to be a self-contained island of awesomeness and love first....sometimes it's easy to lose sight of this...

of that, simple truth.....so here....this is a reminder.  

making love your destination....and once you find that path..... so many more things will flow.  

when people love themselves.....they love.....

and fill life with a rich warmth that oozes with respect and joy.....like a gooey marshmallow.  and when two 

gooey marshmallows find themselves....melting together....

in a loving marshmallow of love....the people who love themselves can celebrate others, generously....

and ego.....egos are put aside.  

and the destination is reached.....

and seeds......seeds are sown....

......  making a bright yellow sunflower path to love...

the destination.  

peace and love...and Tears for Fears.....and the ultimate destination....best vacation place ever.