it is so hard to see someone sad...and miss another person...but not realize that the other person just wasn't the right person for them....and they act like the victim....and they are at a low low low point...and they don't realize they have strength....because all they do is give in....give into the sadness and hurt and fear.....it's like....
standing on the edge of a cliff.....with wings.....and they are so scared to step off and fly....they just keep trembling and hanging on to the cliff....out of fear....holding on to the fear that they know....
instead of flying.....and reaching.....and creating something new for themselves....something way better....
so, instead of kicking ass.....they kinda get stuck...sucking ass....and sometimes the person who should really leave....and stop enabling something they know isn't right....
..they suck ass so that another person can suck less....so the other person can be a little bit happier...
and that's not why you're here....
what? I mean...it's not your purpose to be here....on earth.... it's not....
to not be who you want to be...comfortable with who you are.....so that someone else's life can suck a little less...
seriously....I'm not talking about...you know...taking care of someone who needs care....so complicated, this concept. I'm saying.......
it is not your job to make someone else's life more comfortable at the expense of all you know to be true...
I know that's hard....but sometimes, you gotta know when to get up and leave....from the table...if love is no longer being served....(Nina Simone)
right?
it's a hard time for a few people we know right now....and I'm just saying....this is a time to support growth and change....and not go down, kicking and resisting, because it's not the same as what it was before.
change is going to happen......and it's what you do with that change....that makes a huge difference between being the victim and being triumphant...resilient. kicking ass and not sucking ass....
poise....perseverance....patience....grace....strength....wisdom....peace.....
and i just read all about something interesting....that people change and grow....and yet, as people change and grow...they refuse to let their marriage change and grow...they expect the marriage to stay the same.....they want the same person they married? they want the same relationship to just stay the same?
why? why would you want that? as we grow....we support each other in growth....right?
if you were a clueless 25 year old something.....who, at 38, 39, 40....are wiser and understand yourself better.....decide you have things that are priorities...why would someone want you to just be a clueless ambition-less person your whole life? life and experience changes us....that is a good thing.....
and sometimes change happens...whether we like it or not...it happens...and sometimes the people who need it the most.....fear it the most....and end up.....probably, looking back.....thanking the heavens....that
change finally happened.
and when you reach a point where you want to be your most authentic self....
I hope someone is there who fully supports you....who wants the best for you and who does not judge....
it's easy to think someone is crazy for wanting something different out of life....because it doesn't make the other person feel comfortable....or support their sense of safety.....
it's not your job, to suck....so someone else can suck less...that's what I'm saying.....it's not for you to not dream your dreams...
that's not why you are here...
you are here...
to dream...
and make those dreams come true.....and inspire, create, heal, grow, learn, help, and BE who you are.
so....go....out....and love......and don't suck.....you're better than that....you can be more than that.
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